
Rules and boundaries
n foster care, routines and boundaries are more than just rules — they’re essential tools for creating safety, stability, and trust.
Many children in care come from unpredictable or unsafe environments. By providing a consistent daily routine and clear, compassionate boundaries, you help them feel more secure and begin to rebuild a sense of normality.
🌅 Why Routines Matter:
Offer predictability in a child’s day
Reduce anxiety and stress
Help children know what to expect and when
Support emotional regulation and sleep patterns
Examples include:
Regular mealtimes
Morning and bedtime routines
Clear school and homework expectations
🚦The Importance of Boundaries
Help children feel safe and cared for
Teach respect, responsibility, and self-control
Reinforce that actions have consequences, both positive and negative
Allow children to test limits in a safe environment
Boundaries should always be:
Clear and age-appropriate
Fair and consistent
Communicated calmly and respectfully
💬 Support from Rising Stars
We offer training and practical tools to help carers build effective routines and boundaries. Plus, your Supervising Social Worker is always on hand to provide advice, troubleshoot challenges, and celebrate progress with you.
Most importantly, they show the child that someone cares enough to provide structure, guidance, and support—things every child deserves.



